This life will not be to everyone's liking. We must first accept our existing life or change it to our liking.
Do you know the difference between an achiever and a common man? He who adapts himself to suit the world is a common man. He is an achiever if he wants to change this world as he sees fit.
Whether you live an ordinary life or become an achiever if you are disgusted with your life then the life you have lived will be of no use. So it is right to consider the existing life as good.
Confusion
over what is happiness.
Is it happiness to have all the riches or happiness to have that wealth when there is none? Is it happiness to get good grades in college or is it happiness to pass a subject without passing it? Are we happy when someone helps us or happy when we help others? Is it happiness to succeed in everything in life or is it happiness to travel through life in failure and succeed?
Happiness is not the same for everyone here and it varies from person to
person. For a baby ice cream is a delight! Good medicine for the patient is
happy! Good food is happy for the poor! High-quality food is happy for the
rich! This happiness varies from person to person.
Let's take a look at Dr. Herbert Holt's advice on how to cultivate happiness.
When
you wake up in the morning, tell yourself that today is better than yesterday.
Affirm
that you are in control of your life and take charge of my life.
Go
with joy when going to work, and enjoy saying that there is work to be done
to get paid.
If
you are laid off, believe that you have the skills to find a suitable job.
Spend
your free time in a way that is beneficial to you and others.
Practice
proper financial management so that money is not an issue.
Never
compare yourself with others and regret.
Appreciate
the good in yourself and others and accept the flaws. Don't feel bad about
complaints.
Develop
a sense of humour. It will keep you happy in any situation.
Don't
expect to finish everything quickly at once. Prioritize important tasks and
handle time management.
Smile
is good for your soul too. Why? It is good for others. Just as one lamp helps
to light many lamps, one smile creates smiles on many faces, so let's cherish
and nurture a smile that is worth more than gold.
The
experience of the scholars is the advice
Plan
what to do today Just think of the good things that happened yesterday and that
will be the start of a good day. You should not be addicted to anything,
nothing should control you, only you should control your habits in your life.
Don't
think that your income is low by looking at other people's work and income,
just think that we will live our own life. We go to work to live Realising that
the work we do is not our life only to live.
He
who makes use of his spare time attains complete success in life. Whoever
thinks in his leisure time for his own advancement is a conqueror. Don't think
about how to relax if you use it in your leisure time. If you are constantly in a
job then gardening at home is a job that you can do in your spare time and use
your spare time properly.
A
sense of humour is what separates man from innate animals. A joke that can
be done without offending others is a wonderful medicine that can make many a
hardened mind bloom, so be sure to do it every day.
If
you talk too much it means lying. If you think too much, you will get stressed.
If you cry too much you lose your confidence. If you trust too much you will be
deceived. If you are overworked, you will be stressed. Don't desire anything
too much, you can't bear it when it's gone.
Scholars'
tips for happiness are simple.
Get
rid of hate and worry from your mind! Live simply! Expect less! Give more! Love
life! Light up the lives of others! Forget yourself and think of others! Treat
others more fairly than you expect them to treat you! You are sure to live
happily ever after!